Setting Boundaries in Relationships

Today, I want to talk about one of the most important and helpful ways  to relate to a spouse or significant other.  In order for any relationship to work, both people may have to put forth a lot of effort .

In a any relationship, each person  has to have a mutual respect for the other, or it wont work out .  Both persons has limits that may be different which is often determined by their personal values.  People  need to show as  much self respect for themselves as they show to the other party. They each  should be assertive and set boundaries without being shy about saying "no" in a respectable and comfortable way and the other should be accepting when the other one says "no" to them. When it comes to money and possessions each one should be able to set limits based on their convictions .  It is always important to set limits on what you will or will not share with your partner  because what you as a  person share can come back to bite them. I can give you a good example.  In my previous relationship with my ex-husband, I was an open book, meaning, I shared all of my secrets about my weakness with him not realizing that he may use my weaknesses against me to hurt me. which it shouldn't have happened, but it did!  Every couple should set sexual boundaries. Sexual boundaries can be violated with unwanted sexual touch, pressure to engage in sexual acts, or sexual comments. I've had a friend or two tell me that their partner wanted them to have sex with them a certain way and demanded it because they were married to each other. It really doesn't matter if we are married, we still have certain feelings about certain situations that we fee uncomfortable with doing, and we shouldn't override our feelings just to please someone. 

All in all, I've come to the conclusion that it doesn't matter what kind of relationship one may have, it's always better to stand up for what you believe in and set boundaries in them. you should set sexual boundaries, emotional boundaries which refers to a person's feelings and physical boundaries which refer to a persons space and physical touch.

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The Country Cooking Queen : Does God answer Every prayer Request?

The Country Cooking Queen : Does God answer Every prayer Request?:












Have you ever wondered if God really going to answer every prayer request you make? This is a good subject because  I used to wonder will God answer all of my prayers?  In this post, I will give you some good answers to this question.

I turned to google to find my answer, and this is what I came up with. " If you are claiming to be a child of God in words and deeds, the answer is yes and no. "   The reader goes on to say," God has promised that when we ask for things that are in accordance with his will for our lives, He will give us what we ask for this is notated in the gospel of (St. John 5:14-15).  However; there is one caveat to this.  We may not always like the answer.  We pray for a lot of things. Some are good,  some are bad,  and some are really pointless.  
I agree with the writer that God hears every one of our prayers but doesn't necessarily answer all of them.  I've prayed for a lot of things that didn't come to pass, and maybe they didn't come to past because God knew ahead of time that what I was praying for wasn't necessarily good for me. 
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Finally, God may not answer every prayer because he wants to give us what's best for us, but he does here everyone of our prayers.  (Mathew 6:6, and Romans 8:26-27)." 

How To Activate your faith

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Hebrew 11:1,is a very familiar  scripture for most Christians. 

 Faith is the assurance of things hoped for, and the conviction of things not seen. I totally agree that every word of God is true because God cannot lie.  My faith is activated everyday of my life.I have faith that God is going to wake me up every morning. I have faith that God is going to protect me and others throughout the day.  I have faith that my money is going to be on my check week. I have faith that I can have anything I ask for if its in the will of God. Many times, I've been sick or my son's been sick, and we Go to God in prayer about it, and Guess what happens? yes, we were healed! now, my son has much faith in God! Please take a few moments to share your story with me. I'd love to hear all about it.